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There are some subjects that most writers' instinct is to steer completely clear of, lest they incur the wrath or ire of their readers. In the digital age, where anything you've ever said publicly can and will be used against you, this is a particularly novel concern.
Unfortunately, as a result of these concerns, there are countless stories at risk of forever remaining untold.
When ideas are considered too radical, against popular opinion, or generally regarded as unsavoury in the current climate, it's perfectly natural to think twice when considering writing about them. As members of a human society, we're taught that conformity keeps us safe, and to not go around sticking our necks onto every chopping block we find.
And thus, we censor ourselves. We say no when we really want to say yes, for the approval of people we fundamentally disagree with.
Following on from Writer's Connect issue 82 ... it's time to say yes.
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This post brought to you by guest blogger Tyrone Couch.
The Writer's Responsibility
There's no denying that words have an immense power to influence, persuade, and create change—and in the wrong hands, that power can be catastrophic. In the right hands, however, they can be a force for tremendous good.
Those who seek to use them for evil don't hesitate to wield that power ... so why should you, who are likely only looking to tell a good story, if not do some good in the process?
To use the classic example of violence in video games, for a long time, people argued that it encouraged violence in the real world (particularly in children). On one level, it's a reasonable concern; it seems logical that if someone is exposed to an idea, the likelihood of them engaging with it increases. The most recent meta-analytic studies, however, show that violence in video games has a near zero impact on youth aggression. Some even contend that it acts as an outlet for aggression, and may reduce its impact in society.
However humble or lofty your goals for your writing are, whatever you intend for it to accomplish, it's impossible to really predict the response that it might have. A story about true love could end up inspiring someone to cheat, or a murder mystery might save someone's life. Once your writing leaves your hands, what happens next is quite literally out of your hands.
It's important to consider the impact of your words ... but unless you're specifically writing to cause harm, you shouldn't allow yourself to be silenced for fear of what might happen. What someone else chooses to do with your words is up to them.
The Two-Way Mirror
Another reason we might practise self-censorship is out of concern for how our writing reflects on us personally. If a morally reprehensible act takes place in our writing, does that mean it's something that's within us? Is that how others will perceive it, and come to view us in a negative light?
Some—perhaps even most—of the most famous and renowned authors of our time have tackled some pretty hairy subjects in their writing. If you consider the immensely popular A Song of Ice and Fire series, the characters within it either perform or are subjected to just about every act of cruelty, taboo, and indecency imaginable. While I'm sure there are some people out there who think of George R. R. Martin as a monster, the overwhelming majority consider him a literary giant.
Personally, I ascribe to the idea that there's a little darkness in all of us, and the success of such stories in our world is a testament to that. Just because you write about something awful, that doesn't mean it's something you're capable of, or would ever choose to actually do. If you can extend that thinking to other writers, there's no reason not to expect it for yourself, or to stand firm in it if you're ever confronted.
The message here is not that you should write something controversial in an effort to gain recognition, but that you shouldn't shy away from it because of what other people might think. The most important thing is that you know who you are.
The Delicate and the Outraged
There is an extremely destructive trend in our time for people to expect others to adjust themselves and their behaviours in order to make them feel comfortable. Naturally, we need to practise tolerance and avoid making others feel small. That said, no one is entitled to dictate what we can or cannot say, or make us feel small in return.
Of all the reasons not to self-censor, this may be the biggest. Not everything that doesn't conform to consensus reality is hate speech, and the idea that we're not allowed to express or even hold certain opinions is offensive at best, and dystopian at worst.
You should never feel responsible for someone else's personal reaction to the way you live your life, or the things you choose to write about. Of course, it's important to be conscious of the consequences of your actions and prepared to meet them head-on ... but your right to weigh them against your own personal rubric and come to a conclusion is sacred, and should never be surrendered.
Thanks For Coming
In what has been another more abstract post, I hope you've found something of value.
If your writerly concerns are more practical in nature, we have a ton of great book coaching & writing programs available, and plenty more technical posts to come.
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Word of the Day
salacious (adj.) sə-lā′shəs
Something salacious is lustful and characterised by its appeal to sexual desire. It can also be used to describe something indulgent and not necessarily suggestive.
The salacious rumours about Jarrett were the talk of the town.
Quotidian Quote
"If you do not hear music in your words, you have put too much thought into your writing and not enough heart." ~ Terry Brooks
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