The Most Common Enemies of a Writer, and How To Avoid Them

Welcome, friends, to the accoutrement for this week's Writer's Connect, issue 72. The theme of this edition was time, or a perceived lack thereof.

To many of us, the mere suggestion that we have time to do more than we're already doing is borderline offensive. We are perpetually overburdened to the point of nigh on paralysis, and if someone tries to convince us otherwise, we're liable to fly into an ape-like rage, slinging our stool at anyone in a hundred metre radius.

This brings us to the first (and perhaps greatest) enemy of we writers—ourselves! It can be difficult to do battle with yourself, but you needn't attempt it alone. Here are some tips to help keep you writing.

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Master the self

When faced with something difficult, the great majority of us will tell ourselves whatever we need to in order to avoid doing it. Especially when we've already got a lot on, the first things to get struck off the to-do list are always non-essential or 'luxury' activities such as writing.

In those brief moments we're not busy with all the big, scary things we have to do in a day, we turn to comforting activities and momentary distractions to take our minds off them. Soothing ourselves in this way is all well and good occasionally ... but it's frightfully easy to pick it up as a nasty habit.

You can tell yourself you "don't have time" all you like, but the two hours you spend watching TV and scrolling on your phone every evening beg to differ! You might think they're helping you wind down at the end of the day, but really, they're holding you back from doing things that would make your life more fulfilling.

Writing may be challenging at times, and it may not be as instantly gratifying as other activities, but there are plenty of studies out there demonstrating the positive and cathartic effect that it has. The act of 'overcoming' in any area is incredibly powerful, and can help you to feel more confident and in control of your circumstances.

The reality is that the cheap, disposable feeling you get from watching Game of Thrones will never measure up to that of having written it. Ask yourself: would making time to write take more out of you than knowing you're avoiding it just because it isn't easy? Are your circumstances truly so terrible that you're willing to allow them to prevent you from ever finishing (or even starting) that book you've always wanted to write?

Take back control of your time, and you'll be infinitely closer to winning the war on writing.

Unclog the drain

If the path to the page from your brain (or whatever magical place writing comes from) is a drainpipe, there are all sorts of things that can gunk it up. The psychological equivalent of Drāno here is understanding what they are, not giving them so much power, and allowing them to pass freely.

One of these things is something that every writer encounters in some form or another: writer's block. You've made the time to write, and you're trying to, but it just isn't happening.

The first thing to do when this happens is determine the scope of the problem. Do you a) not know where your story is going, or b) know where you're headed, but not how to get there? In either case, it pays to take a step back and think about your goals rather than the next sentence.

Where a) is concerned, it's really not all that surprising if you're struggling to write when you're not sure what you're working your way up to. I'd go so far as to say that the purpose of most writing is to build suspense or otherwise lead up to later points in the story. That being the case, if you don't know what those points are, whatever writing you manage to do risks being directionless and certainly isn't going to come easily.

b) can be a little trickier to resolve. In this case, you've done a reasonable amount of planning (or at least thinking) ahead, but it's still not helping you to fill the space between where you are and where you want to end up.

First, check that you're not stuck obsessing about your work at a line level. If there's a particular sentence, paragraph, or scene that just won't come, earmark it for later and move on. Difficult for the pedantic among us, yes, but a powerful way to keep you writing (and for some, the solution to writer's block once and for all).

For either concern, take stock of things you want to happen in your manuscript, and make the next thing you write about something that advances that agenda. Want two characters to end up together? Write a meet cute or a bonding experience between them. Planning to have two nations go to war? Show a moment of tension between them. Need to get your protagonist from City A to City B? Have a scene that revolves around them making preparations to leave.

Sometimes, the solution to writer's block is to stop writing and start thinking. If you develop your setting, plot, and characters enough, you can throw just about any situation at them and have a decent idea of how they would react—and at that point, the story almost writes itself.

Failing that, you may simply be lacking inspiration. Go out and watch a movie, or read a book in a similar genre. Talk to your friends and family about their lives, or experience something new for yourself. Even the most fantastical worlds are full of mundane, everyday experiences that have been adapted to suit the setting.

As demoralising as writer's block can be, the most important thing to do to combat it is to not give it some grand meaning or significance. The fact that you're experiencing it doesn't say anything about you or your work; it's something that all of us go through, and it's only the end of the world if you allow it to be.

Relax, take a step back, look a little further ahead, and you'll be fine.

Take heart!

Sometimes, such things are easier said than done. There's no shame in needing a hand to process some of this information and integrate it into your work. If that sounds like you, see what we can do to help.

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Word of the Day

iridescent (adj.)
ĭr″ĭ-dĕs′ənt

Iridescent is how you might describe a fairy's wings, a soap bubble, or the shifting rainbow hue of an oil slick. In other words, it describes things made up of brilliant, lustrous colours (particularly those that shift when viewed at different angles).

The christmas beetle landed upon the paperbark tree, its iridescent forewings shimmering in the sun.

Quotidian Quote

“Time is free, but it’s priceless. You can’t own it, but you can use it. You can’t keep it, but you can spend it. Once you’ve lost it you can never get it back.”
~ Harvey Mackay

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